Share your code.Discover your overlap.Find your Archë.
A profile you design — for partners, friends, and chosen family.
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How it works
Three steps.
Answer the cards
Cards about what you want, what you need, and what doesn't work for you — across every part of a relationship.
Share your code
Your code is yours to hand out. You pick who gets it — and a code is all it takes to connect.
See your overlap
Tomï shows where you and a connection line up, where you'd want to talk, and what to talk about first.
Your design
Designed by you.
Relationships are designed by the people in them. Archë gives you the language for every shape a relationship can take — romance, friendship, chosen family, and the ones without a name yet. Needs get their own answers, separate from someday.
Built private
Private by design.
Your answers live between you and the people you connect with. You can export or delete your data whenever you say so.
The cards draw on relationship research — the Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord (Lawrence & Orr, updated by Maxx Hill), Gottman, PREPARE/ENRICH, Fair Play, Marisa Franco's Platonic, Angela Chen's Ace, and more — credited in full inside the app.